Smile could change your feeling the whole day. When you smile, other’s will start smiling to you too
Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any languange. So call people with their front name
Be a good listener. Encourage people to talk about themselves. Nothing interest people more than himself
Talk in terms of the other person’s interests. Compliment their good taste of goods.
Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely
The only way to get the best of am argument is to avoid it. Even if you are right and win the argument, you lose a friend. Listen to the other and state the fact
When having an argument, don’t say anything that makes the other defensive
Avoiding disagreement into argument:
Welcome the argument, it is a chance to learn your mistake
Don’t be defensive, stay open to suggestion
Control your temper
Listen first, don’t cut
Looks for areas of agreement and point it directly
Be honest if you are wrong
Study your opponents idea carefully
Thank them for their interest
Give time to think
Men must be taught as if you taught them not. And things unknown proposed as things forgot- Alexander Pope
You cannot teach a man anything, you can only help him to find it within himself- Galileo
Be wiser than other people if you can, but do not tell them so- lord Chesterfield
One thing only I know, and that is that I know nothing- Socrates
Once you said you are wrong, there’s nothing could restore the situation again
Admit you are wrong before your opponent accuse you
Punish yourself and take responsibility for mistakes so badly that your opponents try to stop you
Begin in a friendly way
Get a yes response immediately
Let the other person do a great deal of the talking
State to your employee what you can give to them, and ask what they will do to you
Let the other person feel the idea is his or her
Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view
Be sympathetic with other person’s idea and desires
Dramatize your idea, exagarate your act
Throw down a challenge, arouse competition between the shift
Begin with praise and honest appreciation, then throw your critic
Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be hearty in your approbation amd lavish in your praise
Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to
Use encouragement, make the faukt seem easy to correct
For every task you give to other, make sure they have been fairly compensated for it. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest