Slow and steady wins the race
Small, smart choices + concistency + time = radical difference
You may not see the difference between doing good habit and bad habit in the short term, but on the long term the difference will be huge
First you make your choices, then your choices make you
It’s the small things that will hurt us the most
Most of the choices we made is automatic, like sleepwalking. It is important to make empowering choices
Take 100% responsibility of anything you are involved in.
Luck is when opportunity meets preparation
Luck: preparation, attitude, opportunity, action
Track everything you do, track your money, time, food. Tracking brings awareness
There is small difference of effort between the champion and the second winner, but a huge difference in payoff
Take a small step and save money every month
Step by step, day by day, your choices will shape your actions until they become habits, where practice makes them permanent
Habit: the older they are, the bigger they get, the deeper roots geow, amd the harder they are to uproot. Some get so big, with roots so deep, you might hesitate to even try
We are what we repeatedly do- aristotle
Stop having instant gratification and prepare your future with the present
Those who have a strong why will outperform those who know the best how
Having a goal and thoughts according to it will bring it to reality
If you want to have a quality girlfriend, think about why a quality girl like her wants to be with you
Stop wasting your time doing random shit like watching tv, news, playing games too much
How to eliminate bad habits:
Identify your triggers, why and when and where you usually do it
Clean your environments that support you doing it
Swap your bad habit with good or neutral one
Change slowly from time to time
But you could also jump in
Are you controlling your action? Or does it control you?
Installing good habits:
Surround yourself with supportive environment
Think about he good things you want to do, eat instead of the bad things you shouldn’t do
Make your promises public so they can track on your progress
Find a success buddy
Competition for optimum performance
Celebrate your achievement
When troubles come, will you break or stand?
Habits of years will take change in time, be patient
It takes time and energy to built momentum, but once it is running stable you just need to give it a little push once a while
What you do routinely is more important than what you do once in a while
Have a morning and night routine to start and end your day strongly. No matter what happened in between, you’ll always start and finish with your way.
To avoid boredom, try anything new every week or month
Don’t over do it when changing your habit, make sure what you do could be maintained for a lifetime, not just weeks
Once you stop doing a habit, you lose everything you did from the start
Keep your body and mind healthy by having a good thought and food. Bad input such as bad news, junk food, corrupt thought, jealousy are destroying yourself
Choose your closest friends wisely, know with whom you could associate to bring positive thought
Have a mentor who have done what he teach you
Do more than expected, push yourself beyond limit