Always be yourself and have your own style. Even though you may not as great as your idol, if you be yourself with all your strength and weakness, it is still better than being a second great person.
Working habits to prevent fatique:
Clear your desk of all papers except those relating to immediate problem at hand
Never delay your tasks or problem or decision to make, when you have a problem solve it then and there if you have the facts necessary to make decision
Do things in order of their importance
First thing first
Learn to organize and delegate your works
Relax your body when you are working, there’s no need to put extra tense in your muscle
Your boredom, worry, emotional upset, and tenseness are the cause of fatique, not the work itself.
Do what you love and enjoy doing it, it will avoid boredom in your life which could cause fatique
If you have to do a boring task, why not pretend as if it is a very interesting one and enjoy doing it.
Gratitude is the key to happiness, there’s still a lot of people less lucky than we are but they are happier than us.
Look at the positive side of every events will cultivate your gratefulness
After you get what you want, don’t forget ro enjoy it as well
No one ever kicks a dead dog. Never take criticism seriously, it was made by jealous people.
Don’t bat an eye to unjust critics
Do the very best you can and what you know is right, then ignore all the critics. Whatever you do, there will always be a critic.
A criminal never blame theirself, they think what they do is right and justify their action.
Never give critic to other, even if you are emotionally angry, write a letter and toss it to the trash bin.
Giving rewards for a good behavior are more constructive than giving punishment for bad behavior
What people pursue in this world is the desire to be important.
People are craving for appreciation. Give a sincere one to them
Be hearty in your approbation and lavis in your price
If you want anybody to do something to you, you don’t tell them what you need, but you analyze the benefit of doing it for them. See it from their perspective.
Arouse in other person an eager want
Get interested in other person, genuinely.
Address people by their name
Everyone is better than us insome way, learn from them.
Make the other person feel important
Give appreciation to other
Show respect for other’s opinion, never say “you are wrong”. Lower yourself and state the facts.
Begin every discussion in a friendly way
Get the other person to say yes, so give them questions you know they’ll answer accordingly. Once they say no, their ego will act accordingly.
Let the other people think it’s their idea. Or let them participate in the decision.
Appeal to the nobler motives, explain the situation and conclude what’s fair
Call attention to people’s mistake indirectly, don’t criticize them on spot or in public
Talk about your mistakes first before criticizing
Give suggestion or question instead of order
Let the other save face